3-6岁的孩子正处于所谓的精力旺盛时期,他们非常喜欢尝试任何事,所以爸妈们要注意以下几点:
1.接受这个阶段幼儿的多话现象,树立正确的说话典范,制造愉快的说话气氛。
2.正确对待孩子的自言自语。随着孩子年龄的增长,这个现象是会消失的!
3.让孩子从小接受音乐教育。音乐是美的事物,适合孩子身心发展的特点,能够让孩子学会发现美,感受美,提高艺术修养,形成良好的性格!
4.培养孩子的耐性。
1、帮助孩子发展动作。
2~3岁的孩子喜欢做事,但又做不好。父母应懂得这个年龄阶段幼儿的生理心理发展的特点,依据幼儿身心发展的实际,提出符合幼儿“最近发展区”的要求,采取多种寓教于乐的形式,鼓励幼儿积极动手大胆操作,发展幼儿动作的协调性。
2、理解幼儿的语言所要表达的意图。
2~3岁的孩子由于刚学会说话,还不能用语言完整清楚地表达自己的意思。作为父母,一定要耐心倾听孩子的诉说,善于从孩子的只言片语中,理解孩子的意图,另外还要鼓励并指导孩子说出完整的句子,而且要为幼儿提供良好的语言对话情境,才能使幼儿的口语表达能力得到进一步发展。
3、耐心用孩子能理解的语言,教孩子掌握简单的行为规则。
儿童的各种心理特点都是在2岁左右开始萌芽的,儿童的身心以及良好品德的基础应该在这个年龄奠定。怎样才能使幼儿养成良好的行为规范呢?首先,要从小事抓起。孩子的“教养”如何,很多是从小事上反映出来的。例如,饭前便后要洗手;玩具、图书用过后放回原处;要向父母或长辈问好等。其次,要持之以恒,循序渐进。要从孩子容易做到的开始,要适合孩子的思维和自我约束的能力,切不可朝令夕改。最后,既要态度一致,严格要求,又要不断鼓励,细心观察孩子的行为,及时给予正面强化。
1、让我们用自己的行和自己的心去教育我们的孩子。
2、一个行为的反复养成习惯,习惯反复形成品质,品质改变命运。
3、父母的眼睛里只有孩子,而孩子的眼睛里却有着整个世界!让孩子插上理想的翅膀,快乐地飞翔。孩子的幽默是最自然、最坦率的人类语言,需要父母用心去发现和体会。
4、教育工作中的百分之一的废品,就会使国家遭受严重的损失。(作者:陶行知)
5、我们不能为了惩罚孩子而惩罚孩子,应当使他们觉得这些惩罚正是他们不良行为的自然后果。
6、一个孩子,输不起;一人成才,幸福三代。
7、从长远利益考虑,让孩子从小适度地知道一点忧愁,品尝一点磨难,并非坏事,这对培养孩子的承受力和意志,对孩子的健康成长或许更有好处。
8、在孩子干的事情中,不断寻找值得赞许的地方。
9、教学相长,在教育和教学过程中,我们也会学到很多。
10、和谐、勤劳的家庭是孩子成人成才的基本条件。
11、当我们称赞孩子时,我们应该折衷,并且应该表现出赞美的真正魅力。
12、赏识使孩子成功,抱怨使孩子失败。禁止意味着引诱,压抑反而是强化。
13、父母对子女期望值过高所导致的结果,往往是适得其反。(东方)如果夫妻教子观点不一,会让孩子分不清正误,不利于他美好品德的培养。(赵秀朵)
14、培养孩子静心读书的能力,只有丰富的知识储备和高学历的加持,才能够受益终身。
15、莫怨小孩学不好,只怪自己不会教。
16、要和孩子一起娱乐,如下棋、打牌等,在玩的过程中拉家常。
17、应该使每个人懂得:在社会面前,他的责任和对社会最重要的义务,就是教育自己的孩子。孩子的首席教育者,第一任教师,就是母亲和父亲。
18、夫妻实在要吵架,请一定要记住:避开孩子。
19、事业型父母必须有一个人在家里陪伴孩子,或者为孩子聘请家庭教师。
20、一束赞许的目光,一个会心的微笑,一次赞许的点头,都可以传递真情的鼓舞,都能表达对孩子的夸奖。
1.孩子睡眠时间昼夜相加不得少于12小时。记住,充足的睡眠是孩子健康的保障。
2.户外有氧运动能增加孩子的免疫力,上下午均不少于40分钟的户外活动,最好能接触到土地、当然霾雾天气要除外。
3.若要孩子安,三分饥和寒。千万别给孩子吃得太多,穿的太厚,要随环境温度的变化给孩子更换衣服。
1. 培养独立性和自信心:鼓励孩子做自己能够做的事情,并且注重奖励,让孩子自信满满。2. 培养良好的行为习惯:要求孩子遵守规则和纪律,让孩子学会自己做决定。3. 培养好奇心和创造力:让孩子在各种不同的环境中探索,尝试新的事物,激发孩子的创造力。4. 培养善良的品德:教育孩子尊重他人,坚持正义,积极帮助别人。5. 培养耐心和毅力:让孩子知道坚持和努力才能获得成功,并且鼓励孩子克服困难。6. 培养社交能力:鼓励孩子参加社交活动,让孩子与其他孩子交往,学会合作和分享。7. 培养亲子关系:与孩子共度时光,积极参与孩子的生活,让孩子感受到家庭的温暖和支持。
1.育儿是一项艰巨的任务,需要父母们具备足够的知识和能力来把孩子培养成健康、有智慧、有礼貌的人。
2.父母们应该尊重孩子的个性,培养孩子的独立性,培养孩子的责任感,培养孩子的社会交往能力,以及培养孩子的自律性。
3.此外,父母们还应该给孩子提供良好的学习环境,让孩子有足够的时间去学习,以及给孩子提供良好的生活环境,让孩子有足够的时间去发展自己的兴趣爱好。
特殊待遇
大家给予孩子最高待遇,给予特殊照顾,会让孩子觉得自己是特别的,总是觉得自己高人一等,这样下去就会变得自私自利。
过分注意
家人过分注意孩子,孩子就觉得自己是视线的中心,所有的人都要围着他转,如果别人忽视他了,就会发脾气,还会出现严重的“人来疯”现象。
轻易满足
平时轻易满足孩子的要求,给孩子很多的零花钱。这种孩子肯定会养成不珍惜物品、讲究物质享受、浪费金钱和不体贴他人的坏性格,不懂得吃苦耐劳。
生活懒散
孩子生活懒散的话,长大后就会缺乏上进心、好奇心,做事情没有计划。
祈求央告
求着孩子吃饭,孩子不吃饭就拿很多东西诱惑孩子。孩子的心理是,你越央求他他越扭捏作态,不但不能明辨是非,培养不出责任心和落落大方的性格,而且教育的威信也丧失殆尽。
包办代替
对于要不要孩子做家务,大家有的不同的看法,有的说:“孩子这么娇贵,怎么舍得让他劳动?”也有的说:“孩子现在还小,做家务也做不好,不如不做。”这样,孩子到了三四岁的时候还要喂饭,还要爸爸妈妈帮他穿衣服,就算长大以后,孩子也不知道劳动的愉快和帮助父母减轻负担的责任,孩子以后会变得非常懒散,不会主动帮助他人。
大惊小怪
本来“初生牛犊不怕虎”,孩子对于这个世界的任何东西都不怕。不小心摔跤了的话,站起来拍拍屁股继续玩。可是为什么孩子慢慢地变得爱哭了? 这都是爸爸妈妈太爱孩子造成的,孩子不小心摔了一跤就不允许孩子再玩了,一直哄孩子,最后就会导致孩子离不开爸爸妈妈
1.家庭教育不是说教,父母更应该扮演的主要角色是抛砖引玉。
2.让孩子独立完成他所从事的工作的基本部分,哪怕不会有积极的结果。
3.要关爱不要溺爱,要放手不要放任。让孩子自由选择自己的伙伴、朋友。
4.对孩子提出的所有问题,都耐心老实地作出回答。
5.路是走出来的,书是读出来的,良好行为习惯是在生活中培养出来的,用阳光的心态培养具有阳光心灵的孩子!
养儿方知育儿难,母亲是子女的一片天,养儿方知父母恩,儿女会报答您的一片以,养儿方知家中暖,我要让母亲幸福无限。
育儿过程有艰辛,也有欢乐。
在育儿的道路上,家长和孩子一同成长。
陪伴孩子成长,就是重回生命最初的快乐时光,是一件多么值得我们感恩的事情。
只要耕耘就会有收获。孩子们只要认真刻苦学习,就一定会有进步。用科学知识为孩子们插上翅膀,让他们未来世界天空中自由翱翔。
一,父母要在孩子零到3岁花多点时间来陪伴他,这样3岁后的孩子就会很好带了。
二,要常赞美宝宝。就算人家宝宝一岁多就会踏脚车了,你的宝宝差不多3岁才学会,我们还是以一声“哇!你好厉害!”的心情来热烈拍手鼓励他。
三,不打骂孩子,跟他们说道理。不要低估孩子,他们大多能理解。
四,培养孩子阅读的兴趣,让他们从书这个小窗口看外边缤纷亮丽的世界,爱看书的孩子最好顾了。辛苦两年,接下来的20年你可以省下许多心力。
五,不要老带孩子去购物中心,要让他们多接触大自然,对他们的身体和创意都有诸多好处。
3-6 year old the child is in so called driving period, they like to try anything very much, so pa Mom should notice the following:
1. accepts the much word phenomenon of this phase cheeper, establish correct talking model, create pleasant talking atmosphere.
2. treats the child's solilo-quize correctly. As the growth of child age, this phenomenon can disappear!
3. lets the child accept musical education as a child. Music is beautiful thing, suit the characteristic that child body and mind develops, can let the child learn to discover the United States, experience the United States, raise artistic accomplishment, form good nature!
4. fosters the child's endurance.
1, help child grows an act.
Child of 3 years old likes 2 ~ work, but do again bad. The physiology psychology that parents should know child of this age level sends the characteristic that exhibit, what develop according to cheeper body and mind is actual, put forward to accord with cheeper " expand a division recently " requirement, adopt a variety of contain to teach Yu Le's form, encourage cheeper to start work actively bold operation, develop the harmonious sex of cheeper movement.
2, the intention that the insitute of language that understands cheeper should express.
2 ~ because child of 3 years old just learned to talk, it is complete and clear to still cannot use a language the meaning that the earth's surface amounts to him. As parents, must listen attentively to the child patiently recount, in be good at a few words from the child, understand the child's intention, be encouraged even additionally and coach the child speaks complete sentence, and should offer favorable language dialog situation for cheeper, ability makes the spoken language of cheeper conveys ability to get further progress.
3, the language that can understand with the child patiently, teach child control simple behavior regulation.
All sorts of psychology characteristics of children are to be in 2 years old or so to begin budding, the foundation of the body and mind of children and good moral character should be established in this age. The behavior that how ability makes cheeper nurturance good is normative? Above all, want to grab from bagatelle. Of the child " breeding " how, come out from the report on bagatelle very much more. For example, anteprandial hind should wash his hands the replace after; toy, books has been used is in; to want to say hello to to parents or elder formerly etc. Next, want to perserve, successive. Want what accomplish easily from the child to begin, should fit the child's thinking and the capability that ego restrains, must not issue an order in the morning and rescind it in the evening. Finally, want a manner to agree already, strict requirement, want to be encouraged ceaselessly again, the behavior of attentive observation child, give the front in time aggrandizement.
1, the child that the travel that allows us to use our and oneself heart goes to teaching us.
2, the iteration of a behavior forms a habit, the habit forms character repeatedly, character changes a destiny.
3, there is the child only in parental eye, and there is whole world however in the child's eye! Let the child insert on ideal wing, fly happily. The child's humour is the most natural, the candiddest mankind language, need parents intention goes discover and be being experienced.
4, the of 1% reject in teaching the job, can make the country suffers severe loss. (author: Tao Hang knows)
5, we cannot punish the child to punish the child, ought to making they feel these are punished is them the nature of bad behavior is sequential.
6, a child, be defeated not to rise; One person become a useful person, happy 3 generation.
7, consider from long-term interests, let the child know a bit sadness moderately as a child, sample a bit cross, be not evildoing, of child of this pair of education bear force and volition, grow to have profit more probably to the child's health.
8, in the business that does in the child, search the place that deserves praise ceaselessly.
9, teaching benefits teachers as well as students, in education and education process, we also can be acquired a lot of.
10, the postulate that harmonious, laborious family is child adult grow into useful timber.
11, when we praise the child, we should be eclectic, and should show laudatory real fascination.
12, appreciate makes the child successful, complain make the child fails. Prohibit meaning entice, the depression is aggrandizement instead.
13, the result that parents expects to be worth exorbitant place to bring about to children, often be to be just the opposite to what one wished. (Oriental) if viewpoint of godchild of husband and wife is differ, can let the child divide not clear correct errors, go against the education of his happiness moral character. (Zhao Xiuduo)
14, the ability that education child static heart reads, of the intellectual reserve that abounds only and tall record of formal schooling add hold, ability is benefited quite lifelong.
15, not complain a child to learn bad, blame oneself to won't teach only.
16, want and the child a recreation, following chesses, card games, the daily life of a family is helped in the process that employ.
17, should make everybody knows: Before the society, his responsibility and the mainest to the society obligation, teach oneself child namely. Presiding pedagogue of the child, a the first teacher, it is mother and father.
18, husband and wife should quarrel really, must remember please: Escape child.
19, career parents must have a person to accompany the child in the home, perhaps invite tutor for the child.
20, a bundle of favorable view, the smile of an understanding, the inclination that speaks favorably of, can deliver the encouragement of the real situation, what can convey pair of children is complimentary.
Addition of round the clock of time of 1. child Morpheus is not gotten little at 12 hours. Remember, enough sleep is the safeguard of child health.
Outdoors motion having oxygen can increase 2. immune force of the child, fluctuation midday all not less than outdoors activities of 40 minutes, best can land of bring into contact with, of course haze mist weather wants exception.
If install 3. wants the child, 3 minutes of be hungry and cold. Must not eat too much to the child, those who wear is too thick, the change that should follow environmental temperature changes to the child the dress.
1.Develop independent character and self-confident heart: Encourage the child to do the business that he can do, and pay attention to award, make child self-confidence full. 2. Develop good behavior habit: Requirement child toe the mark and discipline, let the child learn his to make a decision. 3. Foster curiosity and creativity: Let the child be explored in all sorts of different environments, try new thing, stimulate the child's creativity. 4. Develop kind-hearted moral character: Educational child respects another person, hold to justice, help others actively. 5. Foster patience and perseverance: Let the child know to hold to and just can score a success hard, and encourage the child overcome difficulty. 6. Develop gregarious ability: Encourage the child to enter social activity, invite the child and other child association, learn to cooperate and be shared. 7. Foster parentage: Spend time in all with the child, take an active part in the child's life, let the child experience the warmth of excellent front courtyard and support.
1. Yo it is a formidable task, need parents have adequate knowledge and ability to rear the child into health, have wisdom, polite person.
2. parents should respect the child's individual character, develop the child's independent character, foster the child's sense of responsibility, develop social association ability of the child, and the autonomic sex that rears the child.
3. in addition, parents still should provide favorable learning environment to the child, let the child enough time goes learning, and provide good surroundings to the child, let the child enough time goes developing his interest interest.
Special treatment
Everybody gives the child highest treatment, give special take care of, can let the child feel he is special, always feel him a cut above others, such going down that can become egoistic.
Notice overly
Family notices the child overly, the child feels he is the center of the line of sight, all people should turn round him, if others ignores him, can get angry, still can appear serious " the person comes mad " phenomenon.
Satisfy easily
Satisfy the child's requirement easily at ordinary times, give the child a lot of pin money. This kind of child is sure meeting nurturance does not cherish the bad disposition of article, exquisite creature comfort, wasteful money and not thoughtful other people, do not know hard-working.
The life is slack
If child life is slack, the desire to do better, curiosity can be lacked after be brought up, do a thing to did not plan.
Invocatory ask earnestly
Begging the child to have a meal, the child does not have a meal to take child of temptation of a lot of things. The child's psychology is, you jump over beg he he jumps over be affectedly bashful hoity-toity, not only cannot make a clear distinction between right and wrong, education does not give the nature of responsibility heart and natural and graceful, and educational authority also loses almost to use up.
Monopolize replace
Do chore to wanting not to want the child, everybody some different views, some saying: "The child so enervated, how does be willing to part with or use let him work? " also some saying: "The child is small still now, also do housework bad, be inferior to be not being done. " such, the child arrived 34 years old when feed a meal even, even father mother helps him wear the dress, even if after be brought up, what the child also does not know to work is happy the liability that reduces a burden with help parents, the child can become very slack later, won't help another person actively.
Spoffish
Original " unripe calf is not afraid of a tiger first " , the child is not afraid of to the any of this world. If tumbling not carefully, stand up pat pat the buttock to continue to play. Can you be why does the child become slowly love to cry? Father mother loves the child to cause this too, the child threw one Jiao not carefully to did not allow the child to play again, fool the child all the time, can bring about the child to cannot leave father mother finally
1. family education is not homiletic, the main part that parents should act more is cast a brick to attract jade-offer a few commonplace remarks by way of introduction so that others may come up with valuable opinions.
2. makes the child independent achieve the primary share of the job that he pursues, even if won't have positive result.
3. wants care not doting, should let go do not want indulge. Make the child free choose his associate, friend.
All questions that 4. raises to the child, make a reply frankly patiently.
5. route takes, the book is to numerate come, good deed habit comes out in the education in the life, with the state of mind of sunshine education has the child of sunshine heart!
Raise just know Yo difficult, the mother is a day of children, raise just know parental favour, a when children can repay you with, raise in just telling the home, warm, I should make maternal happiness infinite.
Yo the process has hardships, also have joy.
In Yo on road, the parent and child grow together.
Company child grows, it is the happy time with regain first life, it is a business that how deserves us to be thankful.
As long as cultivated can have results. Children should learn assiduously seriously only, regular meeting has progress. Insert for children with scientific knowledge on wing, let the freedom in sky of their future world hover.
One, parents should be in the child 0 to 3 years old time of beautiful much dot accompanies him, such children after 3 years old are met very good belt.
2, often should praise darling. Consider family darling one year old much to be able to step crural car, your darling just learns 3 years old almost, we or with " wow! You are very fierce! " the mood comes enthusiastic clap encourages him.
3, do not beat and scold the child, with them say manages. Do not underestimate the child, they can understand mostly.
4, develop child reading interest, let them from the book this fenestella mouth looks profusion shines outside beautiful the world, the child that loves to read a book had better be considered. Work hard two years, 20 years next you can make oversensitive force below the province.
5, often do not look after children go shopping centers, want to make them much contact nature, have a lot of profit to their body and originality.