如何提升自己的修为:(1)气质要内外兼修才可以,我父母的朋友都是高级知识分子,可是好多人却一看就是民工(其实都是单位的领导,有的是还读了硕士博士),没有一点气质,所以要提高文化(并非知识)和内涵,同时还要有得体的装扮,..
其实每个人都有自己不同的气质,有的人是可爱,有的人高贵,有的人雅致,有的人妖媚,有的人华丽,有的人清秀……都是气质,看你想要哪方面的,其实就连庸俗也是一种个人气质的体现,只是不讨巧罢了。
但是我估计你是想要雅致和从容的气质,想给人以舒服的感觉,那么我建议你如下:
1 修心,多读一些中国古典文学和诗歌,它可以让你有内敛平和的感觉,当然也可以读些佛学的书籍来净化心灵得到祥和,多学些经史子集,培养那种来自文化的气韵(有知识的人,不一定有文化哦,只有有文化才会有更好的气质哦);然后还可以学习一些乐器,比如:长笛、古筝、钢琴、琵琶、小提琴;再适当练习一些书画,可以提高静气和秀气;并且学习写作散文,多写写就有灵感了,会很优雅淡定。这样,会让你从一颦一笑、举手投足间流露出优雅的风情。
2 饰外,走路要收腹、挺胸,头上要向顶一个大缸子一样的感觉----直起背和颈,一开始尽量穿鹅黄、柔粉、淡紫、浅橘、乳白等清新秀雅之类颜色的服装,要冷而不傲,可以是长直发或盘发(但一定要精致),慢慢地试着穿桃红、艳粉、亮绿,等颜色的衣服,因为你已经修炼了很好的内涵和姿势,所以穿起来会艳而不俗。妆是一定要化的,但一定要淡,打好底色,最重要的,眼影、腮红、口红的颜色一定要淡,要若有似无,有点儿神秘,带出那么些含蓄的风情,在刷一层睫毛膏。
你就可以优雅、从容的完成一个东方女性独有的魅力修炼了。
(2)是的,琴棋书画习过,很自然的就会和旁人有些不一样
而学习过程,也会熏陶到比较正确的审美观,漫漫就会有所谓品位出来
所以,出众的话,并不是很难的事情
多练习气质是对的,容貌会凋谢,气质越老越醇
(3)自信+微笑+涵养
就是这么简单!!!
(4)你会是男人眼中的一个亮点吗?你想在人群中能吸引别人的眼球吗?当然不是靠暴露、夸张的打扮来实现。气质是一种你有别人没有的东西,让别人会觉得你与众不同,这种不同不是刻意做出来的,是一种自然美的流放,连上帝都会对你说,你很漂亮,而事实上,你只是一般漂亮。能提高自身素质的东西很多,我相信你能从我下面的回答中找到答案。
美丽不在外表,而体现在她的气质上。美到人心里
How promote oneself repair for: ? ? ) it is OK that temperament wants inside and outside to hold long ability concurrently, the friend of my parents is advanced intellectual, but a lot of person looks however,be a laborer (the leader that is an unit actually, have a plenty of still read Master doctor) , without a bit temperament, should raise culture so (be not knowledge) with connotation, have even at the same time dress up decently, . .
Actually everybody has his different temperament, some people are lovely, some people are honorable, some people are refined, some people are coquettish, some people are luxuriant, some people are comely... it is temperamental, see you want which field, connect those who need common also is a kind of individual temperament to reflect actually, just not act artfully to get what one wants stopped.
But I reckon you are to want refined with easy temperament, consider a person with comfortable feeling, so I suggest you are as follows:
1 long heart, read classic literature of a few China and poetry more, it can let you have inside the feeling with gentle collect, the book that also can read some of Buddhism of course will purify the heart to get auspicious, learn some of history more, foster the sort of gas charm that comes from culture (knowledgeable person, not certain literate, only literate just can have better temperament oh) ; Still can learn a few musical instrument next, for instance: Flute, Gu Zheng, piano, lute, violin; Practice a few painting and calligraphy appropriately again, can rise quiet energy of life and delicate; And learn writing essay, write more write have inspiration, the meeting is very elegant and calm. Such, can let you be cast from frown and smile, raise one's hand sufficient an amorous feelings that reveals a grace.
2 outside acting the role of, should receive an abdomen on foot, hold out a bosom, want on the head to the top a big bowl feels euqally----Remove back and neck continuously, wear the pure and fresh show such as light yellow, soft pink, Dan Zi, shallow tangerine, milky white as far as possible at the beginning the dress of color of elegant and so on, should cold and do not be proud, can be long straight hair or dish hair (but must delicate) , try to wear slowly pink, colourful pink, bright green, wait for the dress of color, because you had repaired refine very good connotation and pose, wear so rise the meeting is colourful and not common. Makeup must change, but must weak, hit good bottom, the most important, eye shadow, cheek the color of red, lipstick must weak, if have,want to be like without, a little mysterious, take the amorous feelings of so much reservation, brushing an eyelash to cream.
You are OK and elegant, easy finish an Oriental female's particular fascination to repair refine.
(2) yes, painting and calligraphy of musical instrument chess has reviewed, very natural be met and other people is a little different
And learn a process, also can edify properer aesthetic view, boundless can alleged grade comes out
So, conspicuous word, not be very bad thing
Much more experienced bad habit is right character, appearance can die of old age, temperament often jumps over alcohol more
(3) self-confident + smile + self-restraint
It is so simple! ! !
(4) can you be a window in man eye? Do you want to you can attract the eyeball of others in the crowd? Not be to rely on to expose of course, exaggerated dresses up will come true. Temperament is a kind of thing that you have others to do not have, let others can feel your extraordinary, this kind differs is not done painstakingly, it is the banish of a kind of natural beauty, say even sacred metropolis to you, you are very beautiful, and in fact, you are general and beautiful only. The thing that can improve oneself quality is very much, I believe you can find the solution from inside the answer below me.
Beauty is absent outside, and reflect the temperament in her to go up. The United States arrives in popular feeling