小班家长育儿心得？英文双语对照

一、树立良好的家庭榜样

　　父母是孩子人生中的第一位老师，俗话说言传身教，父母对于孩子的教育除了“言传”外，更要注意“身教”。父母的言谈举止，犹如一本没有文字的教科书。在孩子面前，父母从思想品德到生活小节，都没有小事。好的父母表率才能对孩子产生积极、有效的影响。当两宝在专心做作业时，我不看电视，只做家务活或者看看书，写写教案，让他们有个安静的学习环境。在做作业前，会预定好完成时间，如果能提前完成，就可以打15分钟篮球。打篮球这件事交给爸爸，无论爸爸多忙，让爸爸参与到孩子的教育中，毕竟男孩子的责任、独立、勇敢都离不开爸爸的陪伴。

　　二、养成良好的品德习惯

　　我认为孩子良好的品德习惯是比学业更重要的。在生活中，我不仅从口头上教育孩子要尊敬师长，团结同学，助人为乐，学会感恩，同时在日常生活中也以身作则，当孩子的榜样。比如一家人一起围着吃饭，身为家长，我们主动给长辈夹菜剩饭，说些暖心的话语，平时的这些小细节会影响到孩子的行为举止。在学习中，我会让他们学习和休息相结合，学习累了和他们适当的玩玩游戏，看看杂志或者让孩子做点力所能及的家务活。周末带他们出去亲近下大自然。我和两个儿子沟通就像朋友一样，很简单，也很快乐，两个孩子的性格有点内向，胆子也很小，他们有时候会把学校发生的事情带到家里来说，我会肯定他们好的想法或者做得好的地方，指出他们的不足之处，与他们进行心与心的沟通。

　　三、构建互助互学的制衡

　　在日常学习中营造赶学比超的学习氛围，在完成作业及完成质量上相互监督、相互比较，哥哥适当引导弟弟，取长补短，甚至有时在游玩中也让他们互相提问互相参与，让他们在娱乐中成长。

　　当然，两个男孩间肯定也有冲突和矛盾的时候，当有冲突发生时，我从不先插手，能让他们自己的解决的尽量自己解决，实在解决不了了，我会适当地给与引导，让他们认识到自己的错误，兄弟俩没有“隔夜仇”，解开矛盾就会自己和好了。

　　教育男孩要分得清主次，成绩固然是他们将来成功路上的敲门砖，但是内在的道德品质更加重要。尤其是家有两个男孩时，更要注重家长的暖心陪伴和行之有效的引导，让他们在相互“切磋”中共同成长。

One, establish good domestic example

Parents is the first teacher in child life, common saying says to teach by personal example as well as verbal instrution, the parental education to the child besides " explain in words " outside, should notice more " teaching by one's own example " . Parental the way one speaks or what he says behaves, like the text book that does not have a character originally. Before the child, parents arrives from thought moral character the life is nodular, do not have bagatelle. Nice parental example gift produces active, significant effect to the child. It is when two treasure when absorption and feigned course of study, I do not watch TV, do housework to perhaps read a book alive only, write write teaching plan, let them have a quiet learning environment. Before feigned course of study, can have booked the time that finish, if can be finished ahead of schedule, can play 15 minutes of basketball. Play basketball this thing gives father, no matter father is much busy, in letting father participate in the child's education, cannot leave father's company the boy's responsibility, independently, bravely after all.

2, the moral character convention with good nurturance

The moral character habit that I think the child is good is more important than school work. In the life, I not only from oral on educational child should respect a division commander, unitive classmate, find pleasure to help others, the society is thankful, it is at the same time in daily life also set oneself an example to others, when the child's example. Compare consistent family one case round have a meal, as the parent, we place dish leftover actively to elder, say the speech of some of warm heart, at ordinary times influences of these small fine feast behave to the child's behavior. In study, I can let they learn and rest to be united in wedlock, study became tired play appropriately with them play game, the housework that sees a magazine perhaps let the child become bit of in one's power is vivid. Take them to go out to be close to next nature on the weekend. I and two sons are communicated resemble a friend same, very simple, very happy also, the disposition of two children is a bit indrawn, courage is very small also, the its tape that they can produce the school occasionally is excellent in for, the idea that I can affirm they are good or well-done place, point out their insufficient place, undertake the communication of heart and heart with them.

3, compose builds what coadjutant each other learns to make judge

Build in daily study drive learn to study atmosphere than what exceed, the quality that finish is reached to go up to be supervised each other in the exercise that finish, compare each other, the elder brother guides a little brother appropriately, learn from others's strong points to offset one's weakness, also make them mutual quiz to be participated in each other in amuse oneself sometimes even, let them grow in recreation.

Of course, when the affirmation between two boys also has conflict and contradiction, when having conflict happening, I never am had a hand in first, of the settlement that can let themselves as far as possible oneself are solved, solve really not know clearly, I am met appropriately accord guiding, let them realize them error, brother two not " enemy of of the previous night " , unlock contradiction meets him become reconciled.

Educational boy should share clear primary and secondary, achievement is them admittedly a brick picked up to knock on the door and thrown away when it has served its purpose-a stepping-stone to success on successful in the future path, but immanent moral character is more main. Especially when the home has two boys, the warm heart that should pay attention to the parent more accompanies the guiding with effective, let them be in mutual " compare notes " the Communist Party of China grows together.