1、宾客入座时,要遵循长者和客人先安排入座的原则,晚辈们再依次入座。座位的安排顺序要秉承“尚左尊东”、“面朝大门为尊”,咱们中国讲究“上座”,这个位置一定是留给入座宾客中威望最高的长者。切不可让重要的宾客坐在门口的上菜位置。
2、入座之后,就安安静静等着上菜,不要肆意喧哗或者随意起身来回走动。如果你作为东道主的话,要给宾客们倒酒倒茶,尤其是长辈,以示尊敬。中途要是电话响了或者想上洗手间,要跟邻座的宾客打个招呼,不要一声不响突然人不见踪影。
3、点菜的时候,要记得事先询问在座的宾客有没有忌口。在条件允许的情况下,尽可能照顾到更多宾客们的用餐体验。这样会显得作为东道主的你特别有礼貌,给亲朋好友或者领导同事留下好印象。点菜遵循中式菜单的冷盘、炒菜、主菜、汤、主食和饭后甜品或者水果的顺序点菜比较不容易遗漏。
4、上菜之后,晚辈们不可以急着动筷,相信这点对于现在的小朋友来说似乎有些“难办”,从小娇生惯养的他们,习惯了好吃的自己先吃,这样做其实很不合适。应该先等长辈、领导、客人先动筷,自己再动筷。从小就要教导孩子要懂得在餐桌上尊重宾客,长辈们会发自肺腑地觉得这个孩子特别有家教。
5、餐桌上如果有鱼这道菜的话一定要记得鱼头朝向主座。用餐的过程中,不要随意站起身夹相对较远的菜,哪怕自己再喜欢这道菜!尽量吃坐着就能够触手可及的菜肴,餐桌如果设有转盘的话要确认没有人在夹菜方可转动转盘。夹菜的时候不可以像锄地一样翻动盘子里的菜,也不要越过宾客的手夹菜,这些都是很不礼貌的餐桌用餐行为。
6、用餐期间,如果吃带有鱼刺或者骨头的菜,所剩残渣不可以随意吐在地上,也不可以不低头就直接吐在餐桌上,容易一不小心吐到眼前的菜里。我们吐食物残渣的时候,尽量低头轻轻吐在盛食物残渣的餐盘里,或者用纸巾包好。动静要尽可能小一些,别影响到同桌宾客的用餐体验。
7、给宾客或者长辈夹菜或者盛汤的时候,不能用自己用过的筷子,要记得用餐桌上的公筷,这样比较卫生。要知道,你用自己用过的筷子给宾客夹菜,那人家到底是吃还是不吃?为了避免这种尴尬,一定要谨记餐桌上的公筷的使用功能。
8、中国人用餐讲究中式餐桌礼仪,吃饭的时候不可以肆意吧唧嘴,喝汤的时候也不要发出在座宾客清晰听见的“吸溜声”。如果碗里有米饭,不可以将筷子竖着插在米饭上,放筷子“休息”或者和宾客聊天的时候要轻放,更不可以用筷子敲打餐具。总之,用餐的时候要把动静调到尽可能小。
9、用餐的时候,先让宾客们吃些菜填一填肚子,不要急着让大家举起酒杯喝酒,毕竟空腹喝酒对身体不好。敬酒的时候要遵循长幼有序,根据长辈职位降序进行,人要起身站立,敬酒时自己的酒杯要比对方的酒杯低,以示尊敬。
10、中国餐桌礼仪还有一点也特别重要,不管你是作为东道主还是宾客,在用餐期间要注意用餐的进度。也就是说菜一上来不能因为自己肚子饿就狂吃猛吃,结果大家都还在慢慢用餐的时候,你已经吃饱了,这样显得很不礼貌,也显得很没有涵养和素质。吃饱了没有急事要走的话,不可以起身走动或者离开,等在座的宾客用餐完毕再一起离席。
1, guest is entered when, should abide by better and guest to be arranged first principle, junior people again ordinal enter. The arrangement of the seat should be held to orderly " Shang Zunzun east " , " look out gate is honour " , our China is exquisite " seat of honour " , this position is the better with the highest mana in leaving a visitor certainly. Must not let important guests sit in the serving position of the doorway.
2, enter later, quiet waiting for serving, not wanton and roaring perhaps rise to ambulate back and forth at will. If you serve as Amphitryon, should give visitor people pour wine to pour tea, especially elder, in order to show respect. Midway if the phone rang to perhaps think closet, want to make a call with the guest of neighbour, do not want not say a word abrupt person disappears.
3, when ordering dishes, want to remember enquiring the guest that be present has avoid certain food beforehand. Below the condition that allows in the condition, take care of more guest as far as possible people have dinner experience. Such meetings appear serve as Amphitryon you are particularly polite, perhaps lead a colleague to leave good impression to close friends. Order dishes the sweetmeats after the cold meats that abides by Chinese style menu, fried dish, entree, soup, staple food and meal or fruity order orders dishes to not allow quite Yi Wei leaks.
4, after serving, junior people cannot move chopsticks with rapid move, believe this a little bit to appear to present child some " impracticable " , as a child of coddle since childhood they, was used to delicious oneself eat first, such doing actually very improper. Should wait for elder, leader, guest to move chopsticks first first, oneself move chopsticks again. Be about to teach the child to want to know as a child guest is respected on table, elder people meeting hair feels from ground of the bottom of one's heart this child has teaching in home particularly.
5, on table if have a fish,the word of this dish must remember piscine head facing towards advocate. In the process of have dinner, do not stand up at will clip is opposite further dish, even if oneself like this food again! Eat as far as possible sitting can the dish that tentacle can reach, if table sets the word of rotary table to want to affirm be in without the person clip dish just can turn rotary table. The dish in dish can not flip through like hoe when placing dish, the hand that also does not cross guest places dish, these are very behavior of clodhopping table have dinner.
6, during have dinner, if eat,contain fish bone or the dish of bone, place remnant is residual cannot go up with be being spat at will, also cannot go up in table with lowering his head to be spat directly, say the food before not carefully easily in. We are spat when food is residual, lower his head to be spat gently as far as possible filling the meat with residual food dish in, perhaps had wrapped with paper towel. Activity wants as far as possible a few smaller, do not affect the have dinner experience that is the same as desk guest.
7, give visitor or when elder places dish to perhaps contain boiling water, cannot use the chopstick that pass with oneself, should remember the fair chopsticks on have dinner desk, compare sanitation so. Want to know, the chopstick that you had used with oneself places dish to guest, is that other people to still do not eat after all? To avoid this kind of awkwardness, must write down the use function of the fair chopsticks on table sincerely.
8, Chinese have dinner pays attention to Chinese style table formal, when having a meal not OK and wanton spurt mouth, when drinking boiling water, also do not give out be present guest clarity hears " suck smooth sound " . If there is rice in the bowl, can not insert chopstick end up on rice, put a chopstick " rest " put down gently wants when perhaps chatting with guest, cannot knock dinner service in order to use a chopstick more. Anyhow, have dinner when should move activity as far as possible small.
9, have dinner when, invite guest first people eat some of dish to fill stomach, not rapid move lets everybody raise goblet to drink, hollow after all drink bad to the body. When proposing a toast, should abide by long young orderly, fall according to elder position foreword undertakes, the person should rise stand, the goblet that oneself goblet when proposing a toast wants to compare the other side is low, in order to show respect.
10, Chinese table is formal it is particularly important also to still have a bit, no matter you are to serve as Amphitryon or guest, want to note the rate of progress of have dinner during have dinner. That is to say dish comes up cannot eat because him abdomen is hungry madly fierce, as a result everybody still is in slowly have dinner when, you are already satiate, such appearing very not courteous, also appear do not have self-restraint and quality very much. satiate if wanting without urgent matter, cannot ambulate in order to rise or leave, wait for the guest have dinner that be present to end to leave place together again.