成绩好的孩子,妈妈通常是有计划而且动作利落的人。父亲越认真,越有条理,越有礼貌,孩子成绩就越好。
• 没有爱就没有教育,问题在于爱有真假之别,犹如真假种子之别。假种子坑农民坑一季,假教育坑孩子坑一生。
• 家庭关系紧张,父母专制,不尊重孩子的人格,不讲民主等因素直接影响孩子的学习与人生。
• 作为社会生活中的人,道德素质是人的重要内涵,它决定着人的尊严、价值和成就。
• 教育孩子要避免那种一做什么就要当状元的想法。状元意识就是悲剧意识。“不要让孩子输在起跑线上”的口号是制造童年恐慌的宣言。
• 慢慢陪孩子走,把我的时间浪费在孩子身上,这是最好的浪费!
• 如果没有特别困难,父母最好每天赶回家和孩子一起进餐。家庭的共同价值观,就在全家人围着一张桌子吃饭的过程中建立起来。
• 让我们一起跟着孩子一同成长吧,跟着孩子一起欢笑,一起悲伤,一起疯跑,一起犯错……这一切的根源都在于,我们给与孩子的爱与尊重!
• 要育材先育人,学校和家长的职责就是使孩子成人、成材!每个孩子就像一只潜力股,培养得好成绩优股,教育不当变垃圾股!
• 放下身段,把眼睛放在和孩子一般高的位置,和孩子一起看这个世界,就会觉得自己的孩子是很优秀的。
• 教育孩子如育花,精心浇水、施肥、呵护,方能成功,但事实上并不是所有人都能养好花,不懂得就要向别人请教,学习养花的经验与艺术。
• 掌握好责骂与训斥的方法与技巧,才能达到教育的目的与效果,不当的责罚,不知不觉中会伤害孩子。
• 每个孩子都是一朵花,作为家长,只有用心浇灌,精心呵护,才能健康茁壮成长。小学是花儿开放的黄金期,有优秀父母的经验引导,我们做家长的可以少走多少弯路啊。
• 成功的秘诀,是在养成迅速去做的习惯。抱怨和懈怠,会使你心中多了一幅和肩上一样重的担子,前行时倍感困难。
• 经常和孩子一起做三件事:一是和孩子一起进餐,二是邀请孩子一起修理玩具,家具或衣物,偶尔邀请孩子帮忙解决工作中的困难。三是给孩子讲故事并邀请孩子自己讲故事。
• 每个孩子好象一张洁白的纸,可以在上面画各式各样的图案,调上五颜六色,家长都希望是一幅色彩斑斓的佳画,培养人也正是这样。
• 能从老师那里获得知识的“金子”固然很好,但能求得老师那点石成金的“手指头”才更好。学会学习比单纯的获取知让本身更重要。
• 孩子就像一个新登记注册的的企业,需要经过一番滚、爬、摔、打,才能有自己的立脚之地。
• 懂得尊重自己的人,也会懂得尊重别人,这包括尊重自己的孩子在内。
• 凡会学习者,学习得法,则事半功倍;凡不得法者,则事倍功半。
• 父母是天然的教师,他们对儿童,特别是幼儿的影响最大。
• 万丈高楼从地而起,每个人须从小培养成良好的学习方法,生活习惯,优良的品格,长大了才会成为参天大树,摩天大楼。
• 任何事业的成功,都无法弥补对孩子教育的失败。
• 教育孩童首重激发兴趣和爱心,否则只是填鸭式的灌输,毫无意义可言。
• 孩子的成长需要同伴,让孩子有自己的朋友,但不要有太杂乱的伙伴在孩子没有形成成熟的理性和判断里之前,警惕孩子沾染同伴的坏习惯。
• 不要做有知识没文化的家长。有些人有高学历,但不见得有文化。如果家长不懂得生活,不知道善待他人,甚至不懂得善待自己的孩子,无论他拥有多高的学术水平,他也是没有文化的人。
• 你读过,你不一定掌握了知识,但当你用读过的知识做事时,你就掌握了世界。
• 外面的世界很精彩也很复杂,就像互联网一样,有精华也有糟粕,为了孩子的健康成长,我们必要为孩子建造一道心灵的防火墙。
• 恰如其分的赞赏是增强孩子自信心的最佳途径。要相信任何人都有一个发展的过程。要相信孩子会有进步。
• 每一个心理健康的孩子都是向上的,都是热爱学习的,都是具有自信的,这些品质都是孩子成长必备的。
• 让你的孩子成为有教养的人,有教养从守时,排队,在公共场合不大声说话,不轻易发怒开始。
• 当孩子情绪波动时,愚蠢的父母责备孩子,聪明的父母关爱孩子。
• 大人们通常无法抑制“我知道”“我懂”“我经验过”“我知道什么对你最好”的想法。自我强盛,无法给予孩子安静和独立的空间。应该懂得停止制造噪音和干扰。孩子不是用来玩耍的玩具,也不是用以控制的物体。从他们出生开始,即便幼小需要有人照看,也应当被当作独立的生命平等对待。
• 养育孩子就像浇花一样,用心呵护,跟他建立起一种心灵相通的默契感。
• 家长既要负责孩子身体的发育,又要负责孩子的心理发育;既要重视孩子智力的开发,又要重视孩子各方面能力的培养;既要教会孩子怎样学会知识,又要教会孩子怎样做人。
• 所谓学习障碍,就是阻碍你学习知识、提高学习成绩的各种内在或外在的不利因素,成功的父母既是孩子的家长,更是孩子的朋友;既是孩子的严师,又是孩子的知己。
• 挫折教育并非只是让孩子过过苦日子,干点苦活,挫折教育的重点在于,培养孩子直面挫折的坚强品质。
• 心底秘密是人成长,成熟的标志。如果孩子有心事,他不想告诉你,那么,不要逼迫孩子把他的秘密说出来。
• 在孩子的教育上,慧妈在慧儿中,一直以“妈妈哥儿们”相称,我也希望永远做好孩子的“妈妈哥儿们”,信任与尊重并存。
• 学与勤、悟,让老师和家长共同努力,来提高孩子的综合素质。
• 做人要厚道。如果你的孩子比较厚道,请不要嘲笑他的软弱。喜欢占小便宜的人,往往吃大亏,因为他被别人厌恶。愿意吃小亏的人,将来会占大便宜,因为他被人喜欢。
• 闭上你的嘴,迈开你的腿,用行动去做给你的孩子看。
• 用心去爱,用爱去教,和孩子一起成长,享受每天的幸福和快乐。
• 陪伴的关键是心灵,随时关注孩子的成长,而不是做孩子的监工!
• 知识的积累,就像银行的储蓄,是一点一滴日积月累而得来的。
• 父母能给你孩子的只有三样东西。第一样是给他们尽可能最好的教育;第二样是给他们树立一个好榜样;第三样是给孩子一个健康的身体。
• 做孩子的朋友,和孩子一起成长。此生不可能留给孩子太多的财富,但一定努力将孩子培养成财富。
• 孩子是在体验中长大的。我们不能代替孩子成长,就不能代替孩子体验。这也不许孩子做,那也不许孩子做,只允许孩子按照家长的喜好去做,这不就是家长代替孩子成长嘛。
• 爱孩子,就要学会接纳孩子,包括孩子的优点和缺点,相信孩子一定能行!要有足够的耐心,陪伴孩子健康快乐成长!静待花开!
• 成功的家教造就成功的孩子,失败的家教造就失败的孩子。
• 想象力是孩子最宝贵的财富,他是解开数字难题的钥匙,也是创作文章的火车头。
• 如果你不首先培养活泼的儿童,你就绝不能教出聪明的人来。
• 兴趣是最好的老师,当一个人的某方面兴趣与他的志向结合起来时,那么,离成功就已经不远了。
• 家长要善于细心地观察孩子,从孩子的一举一动和支言片语中去发现孩子的求知欲。
• 只要耕耘就会有收获。孩子们只要认真刻苦学习,就一定会有进步。用科学知识为孩子们插上翅膀,让他们在未来世界天空中自由翱翔。
• 儿童时代是一个胡说八道的时代,这不是缺点,而是他们成长的一个特点。我们要尊重儿童的未成熟状态,童言无忌才能健康成长。
• 孩子的身上存在缺点并不可怕,可怕的是作为孩子人生领路人的父母缺乏正确的家教观念和教子方法。
• 从来没有一个时代像今天这样需要以孩子为师,反省自身,保持童心,两代人相互学习,共同成长。
• 孩子健康心理的培养比对孩子身体的关心更为重要,孩子只有具备了健康的心理,才能挑战未来,走向成功。
• 学生学习贵在自觉,持之以恒,跟现实的条件,环境关系不大。家长对孩子的要求要严格,但期望值不要太高,期望越高,可能失望就越大。
• 孩子,让妈妈牵着你的手,一起前行!走的晚了些,不怕,让我们珍惜以后的每一天!
• 父母必须让孩子知道,在成长的道路上,不可能是一帆风顺的,成功往往是与艰难困苦、坎坷挫折相伴而来的。
• 为了孩子,一定要给他们新作品,使他们敢于面对纵横交错的新世界,不断发芽滋长。
• 身体的活力能够带来精神的活力。身体好的人,性格阳光。身体不好的人,做事犹犹豫豫,躲躲闪闪,说话吞吞吐吐。
• 在育儿的道路上,家长和孩子一同成长!
• 如果家庭教育出了问题,孩子在学校就可能会过的比较辛苦,孩子很可能会成为学校的“问题儿童”。
• 知识就像人民币,聚集得越多,派的用场越大;运用得越好,增值的机会越大;越是旁人缺少的时候,它的附加值越高。
• 养育孩子就像种树,可以给树施肥、浇水、杀虫、修枝,但要成为栋梁之材,还要靠自身努力地往上长。
• 父母给予孩子的爱和教育,就想使孩子成长的崎岖山麓的扶梯,有了它的支持,孩子才能登上成功的顶峰。
The child with good achievement, mom is in a planned way normally and the person with agile movement. Father is more serious, more systimatic, more polite, child achievement is better.
? Do not have education without love, the problem depends on loving those who have true and false to fasten, be just as seed of true and false not. Hole of farmer of false seed hole one season, the holiday teachs lifetime of hole child hole.
? Domestic concern is intense, parents is absolute, do not value the child's human dignity, do not tell the element such as democracy to affect the child's study and life directly.
? Regard a society as the person in the life, moral quality is important connotation of the person, it is deciding the person's dignity, value and achievement.
? Educational child should avoid the sort of what to do to be about to become the idea of Number One Scholar. Consciousness of Number One Scholar is tragic consciousness. "Do not let the child be defeated to go up in the scratch line " catchword is production childhood panic is enunciative.
? Accompany the child to go slowly, waste my time on child body, this is best waste!
? If do not have special difficulty, parents had better drive the home and a child to dine together everyday. Collective viewpoint of value of the family, build in the process that has a meal round a piece of table in family person.
? Let us follow the child to grow together together, follow the child one case mirth, a sadness, together mad run, err together... the germ of all these depends on, the love of our accord child and esteem!
? Material wanting Yo first Yo person, the duty of the school and parent makes the child grows up namely, become a useful person! Every child resembles a latent capacity, education gets good achievement to actor or actress, education is undeserved change rubbish!
? Put down figure, put the eye be in and the child is general high position, view this world together with the child, can feel oneself child is very outstanding.
? If Yo is spent,teach the child, water meticulously, fertilization, caress, just can succeed, but not be everybody can cure a flower in fact, do not know be about to be consulted to others, learn floricultural experience and skill.
? Had mastered scold the method with rebuke and skill, ability achieves educational purpose and result, undeserved punish, imperceptible in can harm the child.
? Every child is a flower, as the parent, irrigate attentively only, caress meticulously, ability health thrive. Elementary school is the gold that flower opens period, the experience that has outstanding father and mother guides, of our parenthood can take how many roundabout way less.
? Successful recipe, it is the habit that be done quickly in nurturance. Complain and laches, can make your heart much mediumer an a carring pole that goes up to be weighed euqally with the shoulder, the times feeling when going before is difficult.
? Often do 3 things together with the child: It is dine together with the child, 2 it is to invite the child to repair a toy together, furniture or clothings, now and then invite the child to help the difficulty in solving the job. 3 it is to give child taletelling to invite him child taletelling.
? Every child is like a piece of white paper, can above the design with sundry picture, the multicoloured on tone, the parent hopes is a glowed beautiful picture, training a person also is such.
? Can from what knowledge gains over there the teacher " gold " admittedly very good, but can get a teacher of that touch a stone and turn it into gold " finger " gift is nicer. Institutional study knows to make itself more important than be being gotten purely.
? The child the enterprise with respect to what resemble a new registration book, need boils through, climb, fall, dozen, ability has his land that establishs a base.
? Know the person that respects oneself, also can know esteem others, the child that this includes to respect this inside.
? Every is met learner, learn do sth in the proper way, criterion get twice the result with half the effort; Every is not gotten law person, criterion get half the result with twice the effort.
? Parents is natural teacher, they are right children, especially the impact of cheeper is the biggest.
? High-rise of lofty or bottomless rises from the ground, everybody must be fostered into good study method as a child, habits and customs, fine quality and style, was brought up to just can be become join extremely big tree, skyscraper.
? The success of anything line of business, cannot make up for the failure that teachs to the child.
? Teach child child head inspire interest and love again, be force-feed duck type only otherwise engraft, fine long hair is insignificant but character.
? Growing need companion of the child, let the child have his friend, but in the reason that too mixed and disorderly associate did not form maturity in the child and judgement before, vigilant child is infected with bad habit of the companion.
? Do not do the parent that knowledge does not have culture. Some people have tall record of formal schooling, but not likely is literate. If the parent does not know the life, do not know to be kind to other, do not know the child that is kind to oneself even, no matter he has much higher learning level, he also is the person that does not have culture.
? You had been read, you did not master knowledge certainly, but when working with has read knowledge when you, you mastered the world.
? The world outside is very wonderful very complex also, resemble Internet same, elite also has waste matter, grow for the child's health, we are necessary the firewall that makes a heart for the child.
? The admiration of appropriate is the optimal way that enhances child self-confidence heart. Want to believe anybody has the process of a development. Want to believe the child can have progress.
? The child of each mental health is up, have deep love for study, it is a self-assured, these character are the child grows necessary.
? The child that lets you becomes cultured person, cultured from time keeping, queue up, do not talk aloud in communal circumstance, do not be angry easily begin.
? When child mood is fluctuant, foolish parents blames the child, clever parental care child.
? Old people cannot be restrained normally " I know " " I understand " " my experience passes " " I know what is best to you " idea. Ego is powerful and prosperous, cannot give the child quiet the space with independence. Should know stop to make noise and interference. The child is not the toy that uses amuse oneself, also not be object of pilot of in order to. Be born from them begin, little need somebody attends even if, the life equality that also ought to be regarded as to become independent is treated.
? Like fostering the child to resemble irrigating a flower, caress attentively, establish the tacit move that a kind of heart is interlinked with him.
? The parent should be in charge of the development of child body already, want to be in charge of psychological development of the child again; Want to take the development of child intelligence seriously already, should take the child seriously again the education of each respect ability; Want church child already how to learn knowledge, want church child again how be an upright person.
? Alleged study obstacle, it is block up all sorts of your study knowledge, immanent or explicit adverse elements that improve study result, the parent of successful parental since child, it is the child's friend more; The severe division of since child, it is the child's bosom friend.
? Setback education is not is to let the child had spent hard time only, do bit of dirty work, the focal point that the setback teachs depends on, develop the firm tone of setback of child straight face.
? Inmost secret is the person grows, mature mark. If the child has a load on one's mind, he does not want to tell you, so, not press child speaks out his secret.
? On the child's education, intelligent Mom is in intelligent in, all the time with " mom brothers " proportional, I also hope to do good child forever " mom brothers " , accredit and esteem coexist.
? Learn with diligent, realize, let teacher and parent joint efforts, will improve integrated quality of the child.
? Be an upright person should honest and kind. If your child is more honest and kind, do not mock his weakness please. Like to take the person of petty gain, often eat to have a deficit greatly, because he is detested by others. Be willing to eat small deficient person, can occupy defecate appropriate in the future, because he is liked.
? Close your mouth, stride your leg, the child that goes doing you with the action looks.
? Go loving attentively, go teaching with love, grow together with the child, enjoy everyday happiness and joy.
? The key of company is the heart, pay close attention to the child at any time grow, is not the supervise work that does the child!
? Of knowledge accumulate, resemble the deposit of the bank, it is accumulate over a long period of every little bit and must come.
? Parents can give you the child have 3 type thing only. it is to give them to be taught best as far as possible euqally; The 2nd appearance is to give them to establish a good example; The 3rd appearance is the body that gives the child a health.
? Become the child's friend, grow together with the child. This is born to leave the child impossibly too much money, but certain effort rears the child into fortune.
? The child is grown in the experience. We cannot replace the child to grow, cannot replace child experience. This also must not the child is done, that also must not the child is done, allow the child to be done according to the parent's be fond of only, this is not the parent replaces the child to grow.
? Love the child, be about to learn to admit the child, include the child's advantage and defect, believe the child can go certainly! Want to have enough patience, joy of company child health grows! Static wait for a flower to leave!
? Successful family education brings up successful child, unsuccessful family education brings up unsuccessful child.
? Imagination is the child's most precious fortune, he is the key of unlock number difficult problem, also be the loco that writes an article.
? If you do not foster lively children above all, you cannot teach a clever person to come absolutely.
? Interest is best teacher, when the some respect interest that becomes a person and his ambition union rises, so, from the success already not far.
? The parent should be good at observing the child attentively, what go discovering the child from inside the child's every act and Zhi Yan phrase is curious desire.
? As long as cultivated can have results. Children should learn assiduously seriously only, regular meeting has progress. Insert for children with scientific knowledge on wing, make them free in prospective world sky hover.
? Children age is the times of a nonsense, this is not defect, however a characteristic that they grow. We want to respect children crudely condition, tong Yan grows without avoid ability health.
? Defect of the existence on the child's body is not terrible, terrible is the parental shortage that gets stranger as child life right family education idea and godchild method.
? Never a times resembling needs to be division with the child so today, introspection oneself, maintain childlike innocence, two acting people learn each other, grow jointly.
? It is more important to the care of child body that the education of child health psychology is compared, the child had healthy mentality only, ability challenges future, the trend is successful.
? Student learning is expensive in consciousness, perserve, with actual condition, environmental concern is not big. The parent wants to the child's requirement strict, but expectation value does not want too tall, expectation is taller, the likelihood is disappointed bigger.
? The child, let mom pulling your hand, one the travel before rising! Those who go is some later, do not be afraid of, let us cherish the following each days!
? Parents must let the child know, on the road that grow, cannot be plain sailing, be accompanied with photograph of hard pinch, rough setback and the success often comes.
? For the child, must give them new work, make they dare to face freely stagger new world, ceaseless and gemmiparous develop.
? The vigor of the body can bring mental vitality. The person with nice body, nature sunshine. The person with bad body, work hesitant, shifty-eyed, conversation hesitates in speech.
? In Yo on road, the parent and child grow together!
? If domestic education gave an issue, the comparison that the child may cross in the school is painstaking, the child can become the school probably " problem children " .
? Knowledge resembles a RMB, gather morer, the use of the clique is bigger; Apply weller, the opportunity of appreciation is greater; When the more other people is lacked, its additional cost is higher.
? Foster the child to resemble kind of tree, can fertilize to the tree, water, kill bug, pruning, but the material that should make ridgepole and beam-pillar of the state, rely on upgrade of oneself effort ground to grow even.
? Parents offers the child's love and education, think the staircase of the rugged the foot of a mountain that makes the child grows, had its support, child ability ascends successful summit.