怎么去学读心术？英文双语对照

听到这样的问题我吓一跳。真正的读心术是做不到的。不过类似于读心术，感受人家在想什么，下一步要干嘛还是可以做到一部分。。

1共情。以对方的参考框架区体会对方的思想，有个很容易懂的表述将共情比喻成穿着对方的鞋体会对方脚的感觉。这种技术的应用需要借助对方的言行收集对方的特点、文化背景等资料（去找到对方的鞋），然后深入对方内心（穿上对方的鞋），借助于知识和经验体会对方的思维和情感（体会自己的脚在对方鞋子中的感觉）。这个时候知识和经验与对方的匹配性越高（自己脚的大小、形状与对方的脚越相似，体会到的感觉就与对方的越相近），共情能力越好（穿鞋的方式与对方越相近），读心就越准。

2投射，是指人们对一些事物进行想象和解释的过程中，会不自觉地将自己的心理特征呈现出来。也就是说，面对同样一件事物，不同的人会投射出不同的内容，但这些内容均与他们的心理特征有关。心理学上的投射测验就是基于以上的原理，通过测量人们对特定事物的主观解释， 并对其解释进行分析以了解受测者的人格特征。利用心理测试当然可以在一定程度上达到了解他人的目的，但是这里我想说的是，有些话，说的人并不确定自己说的准不准，但是听的人将这些话对应到自己的内心想法或过往经历中，就会出现“说的好对”的现象。

3线索，有微表情、微动作、表情、姿势等线索。在心理学领域也有一门技术，神经语言程序学（Neuro-Linguistic Programming，简称NLP），研究大脑、语言的程序模式。它可以通过“读懂”眼球转动、手势、呼吸变化、姿势和肌肉强度的变化来获知对方的内心变化。举个简单的例子，妻子通过眼球转动的方向来判断晚归的丈夫是否说谎。首先，在判断之前，妻子需要知道丈夫平时在回忆事物和构建新事物时眼球的转动方向，假设当他回忆事物时眼球向左上方转动，这意味着他提取的过往经验储存在这个位置；而当他在想象或创造一些事物时眼球则会向右上转动，即当眼球向右上转动时他在构建和想象一些画面或图像。那么，当晚归的丈夫回来，妻子问他去干什么事的时候，若丈夫的眼球向左上转动，说明他是回忆过去发生的事，他在说真话，如果丈夫的眼球向右上转动，说明他正在编造画面，他正在说假话。

当然，这些都是有关心理学了

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1 in all affection. Realize the idea of the other side with the referenced frame area of the other side, have understand very easily state will in all the feeling that affection compares the shoe of dress the other side to experience foot of the other side. The data such as setting of the characteristic that the uses opposite party of need have the aid of words and deeds of this kind of technology collects each other, culture (the shoe that goes finding opposite party) , next heart of thorough the other side (the shoe that puts on the other side) , the thinking that have the aid of experiences the other side at knowledge and experience and affection (the foot that experiences oneself feels mediumly in shoe of the other side) . Of this moment knowledge and experience and the other side match a gender taller (the foot of the size of own foot, appearance and the other side is more similar, the feeling that experiences with the other side jump over close) , in all ability has jumped over affection (the kind that wears a shoe and the other side jump over close) , read a heart to allow more.

2 projectile, it is to show the process that people has imagine and explanatory to a few things is medium, the feature shows the not can self-conscious psychology oneself to come out now. That is to say, face same a thing, different person can project a different content, but these content all are concerned with their psychological feature. The projectile exam on psychology is based on the principle of above namely, through measuring the people subjective explanation to specific thing, explain the character trait of the person that undertake analytic sufferring in order to understand measuring to its. Test of profit motive manage can be of course on certain level the goal that achieves understanding other, but here what I want to say is, some words, saying person does not decide he says allow to forbid, but audition person goes to these word correspondence in his inner idea or associate with experience, can appear " those who say is very right " phenomenon.

3 clew, have the small expression, small movement, expression, thread such as the pose. There also is a technology in psychological domain, nerve language program learns (Neuro-Linguistic Programming, abbreviation NLP) , study the order pattern of cerebrum, language. It can be passed " understand " the heart that the change of eyeball roll, gesticulation, breath, change of pose and muscle strength will come learn the other side changes. Cite a simple case, the square all along that the wife turns through eyeball judges the husband that returns late to whether lie. Above all, before judgement, the rotational direction of the eyeball when the wife needs to know the husband to build new thing in memory thing and compose at ordinary times, recollect roll of upper part of towards the left of the eyeball when the thing when him suppose, the associate with experience that this implies him to extract stores in this position; And be in when him imagine or create the eyeball when a few things to be able to go up right rotational, go up to he is built in compose when roll and imagine a few pictures or picture right when eyeball namely. So, the husband that returns that evening comes back, when the wife asks he goes doing what thing, if turn on eyeball towards the left of the husband, explain he is the work that recalls past happening, he is saying true word, if marital eyeball go up right rotational, explain he is making up picture, he is saying lie.

Of course, these are concerned psychology