01、不要要穿太暴露的服装
柬埔寨是一个比较保守的国家,到这个国家去旅游尽量不要穿着暴露。
尤其进入寺庙、皇宫、古迹等神圣场所,忌穿短裤、短裙,长度要过膝,衣服要遮住肩膀。要衣着整洁,女旅客不能碰和尚、不能和和尚照相。
忌穿白色,在柬埔寨,白色象征死亡,所以不要穿白色的裤子和衣服。
柬埔寨人喜爱红色、蓝色,认为红色象征吉祥和喜庆,蓝色象征光明和自由。
02、不要瞎做手势
在国内,我们说话时喜欢手舞足蹈。来到柬埔寨,大家要注意了,有些手势你做出来也许就无意间伤害了柬埔寨朋友。
在柬埔寨常用手势来表达特定的意思,如五指并拢伸直表示“胜利”;五指攥成拳头表示“不满”和“愤怒”;四指并拢,拇指弯向掌心,表示“惊奇”、“忧伤”。
03、不要用左手递东西
柬埔寨人认为左手是不洁的,用左手拿东西、食物或是递给人东西是不懂礼貌的表现,是严重冒犯行为。
递给他人物品要用右手或者双手,尤其是吃的东西。
他们还认为头是人的神圣部位,因此别人不能触摸他们的头部,更不能随意抚摸小孩的头。
04、不要到处瞎握手
大家见面合十礼是柬埔寨最常见的一种相见礼仪而不是握手。尤其忌讳和女人握手
行礼时,要根据对象把握好掌尖的高度,如女子向父母,孙儿向祖父母,学生向教师,应将合十的掌尖举到眼眉;政府官员下级向上级行礼时,应举到口部;地位相等者行礼时,应举到鼻尖。
05、不要夸女主人漂亮
在我们国家,夸女人长得好看,被视为情商高,可在柬埔寨就会认为你这是对人家的轻侮,不礼貌。
到柬埔寨朋友家拜访,要注意宗教方面的风俗习惯和民族礼仪,给予尊重。
拜访柬埔寨朋友,要事先约定时间,并按时赴约,届时主人会在家中恭候。
客人要注意衣着清洁、整齐。必须把鞋子放在室外,脱下帽子,否则是不礼貌的。
同主人讲话时,要避免涉及疾病、死亡等不愉快的内容,不要打听对方的工资收入、家庭财产等私人生活方面的事情,不对主人国家的内政作评论,不论述宗教方面的问题,不询问女主人的年龄。不要夸奖女主人的长相、身材等。
06、不要盯着别人的眼睛
长时间盯着别人的眼睛是不礼貌的。他们会觉得你在打量他什么。也不要手指指人,在示意别人的时候,应该五指并拢来,手心朝上。
07、不要用脚碰任何东西
脚被认为是身体最低下的部位,不要用脚碰任何东西或指指点点。
更不要踢猫,特别是女孩子,踢了猫这辈子都嫁不出去。
柬埔寨人常常坐在地上吃饭,所以注意千万不要把自己的脚底冲着他人。有礼貌的坐姿应该是两腿并拢,两脚同时向左放或向右放。
08、不要把剩下的食物送柬埔寨人
有时候,东西吃不完会觉得浪费,就送给柬埔寨人。但这样的做法比较欠妥。
大多柬埔寨人自尊心比较强。如果你把剩下的食物送给他们,即使表面接受了。可能心里也会觉得你看不起他。
当然,对于那些服务人员小费还是可以给的,即便你不给,他们也会主动向你要。比如保安、门童、餐厅服务生等。这是对人家的付出表示感谢。当然也不算是必须的,更多的是一种礼仪。
09、不是真心买东西不要随便还价
特别是早上。柬埔寨人很重视早上第一单生意,一般如果早上第一单生意开门红,那接下来一整天的运气也会很好。同理,如果生意情况不如意,那接下来的一天也没有盼头了。
所以早上商家一般不惜低价卖出,甚至做回本生意。但是如果客人问东问西,讨价还价了半天,却迟迟不买,很容易让商家生气。
在柬埔寨从事商务活动时需注意,有些柬埔寨人忌讳在星期一卖出东西,也忌讳别人借钱,但在这天买到东西则认为是吉利的。
10、不能骂牛
更不能伤害牛,精神伤害也不行。
柬埔寨人认为黄牛和水牛是神灵守护的动物,伤害它们的人会受到应有的报应,比如生病等。
柬埔寨还有一些禁忌,比如:柬埔寨人不愿看到孔雀图案,他们认为孔雀是不祥之鸟。星期六出门要小心,柬埔寨人认为鬼魂妖魔也喜欢这一天,是不吉利的。几个人同住一间卧室,年轻者睡觉的地方不得高于年长者的床铺,脱下的鞋子,不能悬挂于他人的头上方等等。
01, should not wear too the dress that expose
Kampuchea is a more conservative country, go travelling not to want dress to expose as far as possible to this country.
Enter the divine room such as cloister, palace, historic site especially, avoid wears knickers, short skirt, length has wanted knee, the dress should obscure shoulder. Want clothing neat, female passenger cannot touch bonze, cannot take a picture with bonze.
Avoid wears white, in Kampuchea, white is indicative die, do not wear white trousers and dress so.
The Kampuchean likes gules, blue, think gules and indicative auspicious is auspicious and festival, blue is indicative light and freedom.
02, make gesture not foolishly
In home, happy to dance likes when we talk. Come to Kampuchea, everybody should notice, you did some gesticulation to perhaps harm Kampuchea friend accidentally.
In Kampuchea commonly used gesticulation conveys specific meaning, be like the five fingers and approach unbend expresses " victory " ; The five fingers grasps fist to express " malcontent " and " indignant " ; 4 point to and approach, big toe is curved to the centre of the palm, express " amazed " , " distressed " .
03, do not give a thing with left hand
The Kampuchean thinks left hand is feculent, take thing, food with left hand or be to hand person thing is the expression that does not know courtesy, it is serious affront behavior.
Hand other article should use the right hand double perhaps hand, the thing that has especially.
They still think the head is divine place of the person, because of this others untouchability their head, cannot touch the child's head at will more.
04, not everywhere blind handclasp
Everybody meets ceremony of put the palms together is Kampuchea meets one kind the commonnest formal and not be handclasp. Abstain from especially and feminine handclasp
When saluting, want to hold the height of good control needle according to the object, be like a woman to parents, sun Er to grandparent, student to the teacher, answer to raise the palm needle of put the palms together eye eyebrow; Governmental official is junior when saluting to superior, should start buccal department; The status is equal person when saluting, should move nose top.
05, not boast goodwife is beautiful
In our country, boast wife grows good-lookingly, quotient of affection be regardinged as is high, can meet in Kampuchea think you the small bully that this is pair of other peoples, not courteous.
Visit to Kampuchea friend home, want to notice the custom habit of religious respect and nation are formal, give respect.
Visit Kampuchea friend, preengage wanting a job decides time, go to an appointment on time, at the appointed time master meeting is in the home await respectively.
The guest should notice dress is clean, orderly. Must put shoe in outdoor, doff next hats, it is clodhopping otherwise.
When speaking with host, want to avoid to involve the unpleasant content such as disease, death, the thing of the private life respect such as worth of the wage income that does not ask about the other side, household, of incorrect and master country municipal make a comment, relate the problem of religious respect no matter, do not ask the age of goodwife. The appearance of not complimentary goodwife, figure.
06, the eye that staring at others
The eye that staring at others for long is clodhopping. They can feel you are in his what to look up and down. Also do not want finger to point to a person, in motion others when, should the five fingers and approach comes, on control face.
07, do not touch pron any thing with the foot
The foot is considered as the place below body lowest, do not touch pron any thing with the foot or gesticulate.
Should not kick a cat more, especially girl, kicked this all one's life marries the cat not to go out.
The Kampuchean often sits on the ground to have a meal, so the attention must not develop his sole other. Polite sitting position should be two legs and approach, at the same time towards the left puts bipod or put right.
08, do not send a Kampuchean the food that leave
Occasionally, the thing does not take to be able to feel wasteful, send a Kampuchean. But such practice compares not proper.
Mostly Kampuchean proper pride is stronger. If you give them the food that leave, although the surface was accepted. The likelihood also can feel you look down on him in the heart.
Of course, serve personnel fee to those or can give, you do not give even if, they also are met want actively to you. Service of security personnel, door child, dining-room is for instance unripe wait. This is pair of other peoples pay thanks. Also not be of course must, more be a kind formal.
09, not be to shop not to want informal counter-bid sincerely
Especially in the morning. The Kampuchean takes seriously very much in the morning the first only business, general if in the morning make a good beginning of the first only business, next then daylong luck also is met very good. Manage together, if trade situation is inferior to meaning, that also does not have sth hoped for and likely to happen one day next.
So the businessman nots hesitate commonly in the morning low sells piece, do this business even. But if the guest asks all sorts of questions, argy-bargy a long time, do not buy tardy however, make a businessman very easily angry.
Need to notice when Kampuchea undertakes business affairs activity, some Kampucheans abstain from a thing sells on Monday, also abstain from others lends money, but the thing is bought to consider as in this day auspicious.
10, cannot scold an ox
Cannot harm an ox more, mental harm also is no good.
The Kampuchean thinks ox and buffalo are the animal that deities guards, the person that injures them can get due Nemesis, fall ill for instance etc.
Kampuchea still has a few contraindication, for instance: The Kampuchean does not wish to see peacock pattern, the bird that they think the peacock is bodeful. Go out on Saturday should take care, the Kampuchean thinks soul demon also likes this one day, it is ominous. A few people live a bedroom together, young person the bed that the place that sleep does not get prep above elder, take off the shoe below, cannot suspension is waited a moment at the head upper part of other.