01、海纳百川的“容”
我们中华的文化,就像是大海一样,总是不择细流。而且这种犹如海纳百川般的容纳,最主要的体现,就是思想文化层面。
太远的我们不说,就以春秋时期的百家争鸣为例。
话说齐桓公为了争霸,想要招揽人才,就由管仲出面,在今天的山东淄博盖了一座稷下学宫。当时来参加争鸣的有多少人?已经不得而知了。反正参加的学派,据《隋书·经籍志》中记载,就有上千家,而另据《汉书·艺文志》记录,光数得上名字的,就有189家。
可是这些人争来论去,唾沫星子乱飞,最后形成的统一共识就是:著书立说,四处宣讲,看哪家学派能让国家繁荣强盛,让人民安居乐业。
就是说,从来没有任何一家学派,为了自家学派的发展,而主张把别家学派给灭掉的。
反观其他所谓的文明国家,显然就欠缺我们中华文化中,这种海纳百川的包容性。尤其是信奉伊斯兰教和基督教的国家,为了个耶路撒冷打了上千年,现在还冲突不断。
求同之下的“异”
世界上的事有时很奇怪,就像太平洋和大西洋,本来都是海洋,却有着一条明显的界限。由此可见,一味的容纳,这只是一个基础,还需要一个求同存异的文化观念,大家才能相安无事,也才能各自好好过日子。
实际上西方某些国家,无论是伊斯兰教与基督教的冲突,还是黑人与白人的对立,就是没处理好求同存异的问题。
反观我们国家,“儒释道”三家并存了多少年,就因为能够很好的求同存异,从没有发生过像十字军东征,那样荒唐的事。也正是在这样,求同存异的文化观念下,我们每个人过得都比较自由。
得意的时候,就信奉儒家;失意的时候,就相信道家。
如果觉得腻了,还可以皈依佛家。
而且最神奇的是,这三种教义在我们脑袋里,可以自由切换,一点都不妨碍。
这就是《礼记》中说的,“同则相亲,异则相敬”的道理。
大事化小的“化”
现在很多人在遇到问题时,往往首先想到的,就是如何去解决。这其实并不是,我们中华文化的一种惯有思维。
大家记住了,任何问题一旦显现出来,我们是不大可能真的解决的。实际上,很多时候我们做的事,就是按下葫芦浮起瓢,一波未平一波又起。
因为我们为了解决某一问题,采取的一些措施和办法,本身就会带来新的问题和麻烦。
这就是老话说的,有一利必有一弊,而且至少是一弊。
那么,到底该怎么办呢?就是“大事化小,小事化无”,只要这么一转化,什么事情都不会发生,什么问题也不会出现。
因为这个世界上,本来就是“有无相生”!
01, of sea Na Baichuan " look "
The culture of our China, resembling is the sea same, always not choose brooklet. And this kind is just as the sea like Na Baichuan accommodate, the mainest reflect, it is thought culture level.
Too far we do not say, it is with the contention of a hundred schools of thought of year period exemple.
The word says Qi Huan is fair for contend for hegemony, want to solicit a talent, appear personally by Guan Zhong, built in today's Shandong Zi rich palace learns below a millet. Come to those who attend contend how many person there is at that time? Already unknown. The school that attends anyway, according to " mark of record of classics of · of book of the Sui Dynasty " in account, have on 1000, and occupy additionally " annals of art article of Chinese book · " record, smooth number is gotten on of the name, have 189.
But these people are contended for,will be talked, saliva star child fly in disorder, all altogether that forms finally knows even if: Write book end to say, explain to public everywhere, school of home where seeing can make national prosperity powerful and prosperous, let people live and work in peace and contentment.
That is to say, never an any school, for the development of oneself school, and the view gives those who destroy the school that fasten the home.
Watch other so called civilized country instead, in be deficient in our China culture apparently, of Na Baichuan of this kind of sea include quality. Especially believe in is Mohammedan the country with christian, for Jerusalem hit chiliad, still conflict now ceaseless.
Beg with under " different "
The thing on the world sometimes very strange, resemble Pacific Ocean and Atlantic, it is marine originally, having a clear dividing line however. This shows, blindly accommodate, this is a foundation only, still need the culture sense of a seek common points while reserving difference, everybody ability live in peace with each other, just also can get along well severally.
The west is actually certain country, no matter be Mohammedan the conflict with christian, still be black and white man is contrary, did not handle the issue of good seek common points while reserving difference namely.
Watch our country instead, "Confucianism commentate path " coexisted 3 times how many years, because can very good seek common points while reserving difference, never have had happened to resemble the Crusades Dong Zheng, absurd in that way thing. Also be in just about such, below the culture idea of seek common points while reserving difference, our everybody passes freelier.
Complacent when, with respect to believe in Confucianist; Frustrated when, believe Taoist school.
If feel be bored with, OK still Buddhist of the ceremony of proclaiming sb a Buddhist.
And the most magical is, these 3 kinds of doctrine are in our head, OK and free switch, not cloggy.
This is " The Book of Rites " in say, "Date together, different is respected " truth.
The important matter is changed small " change "
A lot of people are in now when encountering a problem, often think of above all, how be solved namely. This is not actually, a kind of be used to of our China culture has thinking.
Everybody remembered, once any problems are shown, we are solved really unlikely. Actually, the thing that we do a lot of time, it is a solve one problem only to find another cropping up, one did not make the same score to rise again.
Because of us to solve some problem, adopted a few step and method, itself can bring new issue and trouble.
Adage says this, one benefit has one disadvantage surely, and it is one fraud at least.
So, how should do after all? Namely " the important matter is changed small, bagatelle is changed without " , as long as so change, what thing won't happen, what problem also won't appear.
Go up because of this world, it is originally " have without unripe " !