白岩松教育儿子6句话？英文双语对照

白岩松送给儿子的6句话，既有为人父母的责任与担当，也展现出了为人父母的那份柔软与温和，非常值得父母借鉴。

1、“撞线并非光荣，我们不和别人争第一”，白岩松曾经给孩子寄出了一封“人生邮件”，邮件当中除了让孩子学会包容、爱上音乐以外，还特别强调了“不争第一”这件事情。在孩子中考之前，他还与孩子开了一个玩笑：“你要是考上了北京最好的高中，我就跟你急，你要是考了第一，我就跟你断绝父子关系。”后来成绩公布以后，白岩松得知儿子考了个高分，但并非是第一的时候，他反倒松了口气。相信白岩松的“不争第一”理论，让很多的父母都感到不解了：不让孩子争第一？不拿第一的话怎么能够证明自己的孩子优秀呢？我要是跟我孩子说，你不用拿第一，估计当天他就会放下书，高兴一天！但其实关于“第一”，白岩松是这么认为的：人生并非竞技，孩子你不必把撞线当成最大的光荣，当了第一的人也许是脆弱的，尝尽了众人之上的滋味，如若有下落的情况，那么感受的就可能是悲凉，于是就将永远向前。

2、“如果所有的美德可以自选，孩子，你就先把宽容挑出来吧”，对于孩子来说，也许平和与安静会很昂贵，但拥有宽容，你就可以奢侈地消费它们。宽容不仅能够松弛别人，也能够抚慰自己，因为它能够将爱放在首位，万不得已才动用恨的武器；同时宽容还会让你变得随和，让你能够把一些人很看重的事情看得很轻；最后宽容还会是你不至于失眠，不管有再多的不快、再激烈的冲突，都不会在宽容的心灵里过夜。

3、“要懂得珍惜同学之间的友谊”，白岩松对于校园时期同学友谊情非常珍惜，他的作品《痛并快乐着》中，就有很多描述同学情谊的画面。白岩松曾在江西经济大学的演讲中，曾这样说过：“在大学里头一定要去珍惜、维系和发展那种一辈子很难遇到的集体友情。”这种友谊没有多少杂质，干干净净，所以中学的时候就要对友谊格外在乎。

4、“让阅读成为你人生当中的乐趣”，其实在每一次的演讲当中，白岩松总是会特别的强调“阅读”对于一个人成长的重要性。所以在孩子阅读习惯的培养方面，白岩松还是比较提倡通过父母行为的引导，让孩子自然而然地养成阅读的好习惯。首先不要一味地强迫孩子阅读，父母却在身旁玩手机，这是大多数父母的通病，而事实上，白岩松的这句话，更是对父母的一种提醒。白岩松也曾说过：“读书最重要的并不是获得了什么知识，而是从读书当中收获一种乐趣。”

5、“学会用自己的脑子思维，切莫人云亦云”，父母要给予孩子自己独特的想法，不要人云亦云，更不要怕试错。让孩子学会用自己的眼光去看待和分析这个世界是非常重要的事情，有些父母在面对孩子“跃跃欲试”的情况时，往往会上前阻止孩子：“你先别着急，先看看别人是如何做的，你不就知道了吗？”但其实这样的教育方式往往会让孩子放弃主动思考的过程，从而习惯性地选择趋同，这样孩子久而久之就会慢慢养成不自信、不主动、不思考的坏习惯了。而聪明的父母，就应该去鼓励孩子独立思考，敢于提出不一样的想法，并引导孩子去思考、观察、发现和探索，对某一个问题去追根究底，激发出主动思维的积极性。

6、“孩子，请一直保有你的好奇心”，对于孩子来说，好奇心能够让他们主动去探索、激发学习热情、对做事情更加专注、投入。而那些有强烈好奇心的孩子往往能更享受学习的过程，但我们大多数的父母对于孩子的好奇心一直持着保守状态，有时候甚至还会毫无意识地扼杀掉孩子的好奇心。所以白岩松对于孩子的好奇心，始终是站在“鼓励”的一边，因为在他看来“对未知的事情始终充满好奇，这将成为支持你一生的素质”。白岩松希望孩子能够对生活充满好奇，并永不停下地发现和探索的脚步，因为好奇心是推动人类不断前进的最强动力。我们相信，一个拥有好奇心、充满热情、勇于尝试、独立思考的孩子，未来将会懂得如何在未来的生活中，找到自己热爱的东西并坚持下去，在面对复杂的真实世界时，作为一个知情的决策者，成为一个能够用科学方法整体处理事务的人。

White cliff pine sends 6 words of the son, the responsibility that has parenting already and take on, also show that softness that gave parenting and gentle, be worth parents to draw lessons from very much.

1, " bump into a line to be not glory, we are not contended for with others the first " , white cliff pine once sent to the child " life mail " , among mail besides let the child learn to include, fall in love with music beyond, still emphasized particularly " do not contend for the first " this thing. Before be taken an examination of in the child, he still opened a fun with the child: "If you are taken an examination of went up Beijing's best high school, I follow you urgent, if you were taken an examination of the first, I follow your disinheritance. " after achievement is announced later, white cliff pine was informed a son to take an examination of a high component, but be not is first moment, his instead loosened tone. Believe Bai Yan is loose " do not contend for the first " academic, let a lot of parents feel indissolubled: Do not let the child contend for the first? Do not take first word how to you can prove his child is outstanding? If I say with my child, you need not be taken the first, reckon he can put down a book that day, glad one day! But actually about " the first " , white cliff pine is so those who think: Life is not athletics, the child you need not bump into a line to regard as the greatest glory, becoming first person perhaps is flimsy, tasted the flavor over everybody, if have the case of whereabouts, so those who experience is likely it is Bei cool, then will forever forward.

2, " if all goodness are OK free, the child, you come to good-tempered winkle first " , to the child, gentle perhaps very as costly as quiet meeting, but have good-tempered, you are OK high consumes them. Good-tempered not only can flabby others, also can placatory oneself, because it can put love in the first place, just employ the weapon of hate as a last resort; At the same time good-tempered still can let you become amiable, the business that allows you to be able to value a few people very much looks very gently; Good-tempered finally still can be you unapt insomnia, no matter have again again much discomfort, intense conflict, won't be in good-tempered heart pass the night.

3, " should know cherish the friendship between the classmate " , bai Yan loosens to be cherished very much to affection of friendship of campus period classmate, his work " painful happy move " in, a lot of describe the picture of classmate friendly feelings. Bai Yan loosens to ever was in the speech of Jiangxi economy university, ever had said so: "Must be cherished in university within, hold together and development the sort of collective friendship that encounters very hard all one's life. " this kind of friendship does not have how many impurity, clean, so in when learning, be about to be in all the more to friendship.

4, " let read make the fun among your life " , it is actually among the speech of every time, white cliff pine always is can special emphasize " read " the importance to one personal growth. Read education field of the habit in the child so, bai Yan loosens or advocate those who pass parental act to guide quite, let the child naturally nurturance reading good convention. Do not force the child blindly to read above all, parents is in however beside play a mobile phone, this is the common fault of most parents, and in fact, this Bai Yan's loose word, one kind be pair of parents more reminds. Bai Yan loosens to ever also had said: "It is the most important to read is not to gain what knowledge, however from read in the center harvest a kind of fun. However from read in the center harvest a kind of fun..

5, " the brain thinking that learns to use oneself, do not echo what other says " , parents should give him child distinctive think of a way, do not want echo what other says, should not be afraid of trial and error more. The insight that yields the child to learn to use his goes look upon and analysing this world is very important thing, some parents are in face the child " itch to try " when the circumstance, the child prevents before often can going up: "You are fastened first anxious, how is seeing others first done, didn't you know? " but the procedure that actually such educational means often can allow the child to abandon thinking actively, choose hasten chronically to be the same as thereby, such child as time passes are met slowly nurturance the bad habit of not not self-confident, active, unthink. And clever parents, should encourage the child to think independently, dare to offer different think of a way, guide the child to think, observation, discovery and exploration, go to certain problem get to the bottom of sth, stimulate the initiative that gives out active thinking.

6, " the child, retain all the time please your curiosity " , to the child, curiosity can make them active explore, arouse study more enthusiastic, dedicated to doing a business, devoted. And those children that have strong curiosity often can more the process that enjoys study, but our most parents is holding conservative position all the time to the child's curiosity, return meeting fine long hair to strangle the child's curiosity unconsciously even occasionally. Bai Yan is so loose the curiosity to the child, it is to stand in from beginning to end " encourage " at the same time, because look in him " be full of curiosity from beginning to end to sealed thing, this will become the quality that supports your lifetime " . Loose hope child can be opposite Bai Yan the life is full of curiosity, never stop the pace that go to the fields discovers and explores, because had better surprise,the heart is the most powerful motive force that urges the mankind to advance ceaselessly. We believe, one has curiosity, be full of enthusiasm, be brave in the attempt, child that thinks independently, in the life that if where to did not come,future will know, the thing that finds oneself to have deep love for holds on, in face complex actual universal time, as the policymaker of a know the inside story, become to be able to treat clerical person with scientific method whole.