穷养富养,不如用爱养
“穷养富养,都不如用爱养”,爱是世界上最伟大的力量,也是最温润的滋养。黄磊这样解释自己对孩子的教育。他给两个女儿起的名字中,一个是慈,一个是爱,他说把慈爱放在心里,这样的人生才会幸福。
黄磊曾说过,“多多的到来,改变了我们的生命。“,爱你就像爱生命,也许这就是父爱的极致吧。在生活中,不论是陪伴在女儿身边时,还是出差在外,黄磊都时刻记得表达对女儿们的爱。他常常在微博中表达想家,想念两个女儿的心情。
在爱中培养出来的孩子,纯真可爱热情大方,能够敏锐地感知捕捉生活的精彩,也能自由畅快地表达自己的爱。多多常常自己亲手制作礼物送给自己的爸爸妈妈以及家人,表达自己对他们的爱。
最好的教育,是爸爸爱妈妈
再优秀的教育方法也抵不过给孩子一个温暖幸福的家庭。世界上的幸福家庭都相同:爸爸爱妈妈,妈妈爱爸爸,爸爸妈妈爱孩子,然后孩子学会了如何去爱。
越南的一行禅师也曾说过:“我们有必要学习创造幸福的技术。如果小时候受到了爸爸妈妈在家创造幸福的影响,那我们自然就会知道如何做了。”而黄磊在这一点上可谓做到了极致。
他和孙莉在校园相恋,至今已有20个年头,黄磊说:“我太太这样的女人,其实不罕见,应该属于普及型。但在我心中,却是只此一款,不退不换。”足可见他对妻子的爱。
为庆祝12年结婚纪念相爱20周年纪念,黄磊微博长文温情告白妻子孙莉:“这20年,仿佛只是一瞬间,我们用这一瞬慢慢试图去懂得永恒,学会相爱。那一天,我与她一步之遥,轻声细语,我慌张地喋喋不休,她羞涩地红了脸,似乎一切早已成了注定,我们却还不知晓。”
网友们纷纷留言祝福:“我愿与你坐至白头看一路风景。”“这样的爱情好像童话。”“羡慕这种有合适的工作,有独立的生活。还有懂事的女儿,有情操的做饭和旅游。祝百年好合。”
和孩子一起,身体和心灵在路上
“一个家庭,一群朋友,一次又一次的旅行。”这些年,黄磊一家一直在路上,在行走的途中,也收获了很多难忘的回忆。他们的足迹遍布欧洲,美国,澳大利亚,新西
兰,读万卷书不如行万里路,在旅途中孩子会增长见识,会收获许多在书本上学不到的知识,孩子的眼界也在一次次的旅行中变得宽阔。
黄磊说,不要害怕带小孩子出来,小孩子需要多接触大自然,多和不同的人事物接触。在孩子的成长时刻带孩子尽可能多的扩大眼界见识,对孩子无论是精神还是物质上都是不可估量的财富。
黄磊的小女儿才1岁半时,他们一家就曾到新西兰旅行,拍摄《我们相爱20年》的纪录片。黄磊说,可以明显感觉到,小女儿在旅行过程中,由开始的没有安全感到变得喜欢和人交流,可以说旅行让孩子成长的更快。
Raise thoroughly rich raise, be inferior to be being raised with love
"Raise thoroughly rich raise, be inferior to be being raised with love " , love is the greatest power on the world, also be the most lukewarm embellish is alimentary. Huang Lei explains he is right so the child's education. In the name that he has to two daughters, one is kind, one is love, he says to put affection in the heart, such life just is met happy.
Huang Lei ever had said, "Great arrival, changed our life. ", love you to resemble loving life, perhaps this is the acme that father loves. In the life, it is company is beside the daughter no matter when, still be away on official business outer, huang Lei always remembers expressing the love to daughters. He often considers the home in the expression in small gain, miss the mood of two daughters.
In the child that the education in love comes out, pure and lovely enthusiasm is easy, can feel exquisitely those who take the life is wonderful, also can express oneself love carefreely freely. Great often the father mother that oneself make a gift send oneself with one's own hands and family, him expression loves to theirs.
Best education, it is father love mom
Again outstanding education method also supports the family that gives the child a warm happiness nevertheless. The happy family on the world is same: Father loves mom, mom loves father, father mother loves the child, next the child learned how to love.
An a Buddhist monk of Vietnam ever also had said: "We are necessary to learn the skill that creates happiness. If got father mother creates happy effect in the home in one's childhood, then we can know naturally how to be done. " and Huang Lei achieved perfection in the it may be said on this.
He and Sun Li are in love in campus, already had 20 long time up to now, huang Lei says: "My madam such woman, actually not infrequent, should belong to gain ground model. But in my heart, it is however this one, do not retreat do not change. " sufficient see his love to the wife.
To celebrate 12 years to marry souvenir loves each other 20 anniversary, yellow Lei small gain grows Sun Li of wife of article warmth confess: "These 20 years, asing if is flashy only, we try to know eternity slowly with this an instant, the society loves each other. That day, I and she the Yao of one pace, light tone delicate language, my hastily babble, she is bashful the ground became red face, it seems that everything was become already be destined, we are not witting still however. We are not witting still however..
Netizens leave a message in succession blessing: "I wish to sit to hoary head to look with you all the way scenery. " " such love is like fairy tale. " " envy has proper job this kind, have independent life. Still have sensible daughter, have sentiment cook and travel. Wish hundred years close very much. Wish hundred years close very much..
With the child together, the body and heart are on the road
"A family, a flock of friends, the journey of the again and again. " these year, huang Lei is all the time on the road, in walking road, also harvested a lot of unforgettable memory. Their footmark spreads all over Europe, the United States, australia, new on the west
Orchid, read 10 thousand books to be inferior to going 10 thousand lis of roads, in journey the child can grow experience, can harvest a lot of knowledge that do not go to school in book, the child's horizon also becomes broad in journeys.
Huang Lei says, do not fear to take children, dot needs to contact nature more, mix more contact of different human affairs content. Look after children in growing hour of the child as far as possible much amplification horizon experience, no matter be spirit or materially,be inestimable fortune to the child.
Young daughter of Huang Lei just 1 year old of half, they ever travelled to New Zealand, film " we love each other 20 years " newsreel. Huang Lei says, can feel apparently, young daughter is in viatic process, feel without safety by what begin become like to communicate with the person, what can say the journey lets the child grow is faster.